As 2011 comes to an end, ask yourselves. What have you achieved, things that you aimed for when the year started. Those new year resolutions of yours, have you completed any of them? Often, most resolutions are set for the sake of doing it, and not actually followed thoroughly. Work hard for them. Well here's my resolutions, as well as advices for you if you have got one similar to mine.
Resolutions for the year 2012.
*Save up at least $5,000 by the end of 2012, with $420 per month saved.
(If you are aiming to save money, have a specific amount, and plan out how you are going to save up the amount. Not just some unobtainable sky-high amount of money that you don't even have to start with or etc)
*Meet up with my best friends at least once a month, out of club.
(Those hoping to keep your close friends near to you, never give up the effort to involve them in your life. I know when you have drifted away and stuff, things become really awkward around them. That does not change the fact that you make each other happy. So take time, make the effort to catch up with them)
*Gym at least twice a week, no matter what.
(Guys, those who are working out, I know it is real hard to be satisfying your girls and making out the time to be with them, as well as keep your figure in shape. Sacrifices need to be made, timely luck and management will do the trick.)
*Maintain my room at least twice a week.
(People finding your room messy or something, buck up! You can go easy on yourself by doing it once a week, but it is always good to be keeping your room tidy so it feels more at home.)
*Control my temper.
(By controlling one's temper, does not mean that one is good-natured. It simply means you know your own limits, that blowing your top has no use towards things and not going to waste your energy on such things. I know sometimes one will feel like one's losing when they keep their cool, but I assure you, the one keeping his/her cool is the wise one.)
*Give in more. Improve patience level.
(If you think you are getting more than often, fed-up with life, take time to slow down, pace your moves and look around. Patience is of utmost importance, as well as giving in and understanding. Giving in does not need reasons, you simply give in because you just do it like that. If nobody appreciates it, continue to do so, take it as you're practicing. If your relationship disappoints you though you have been putting in all the effort, do not falter. Hang on, and if it's really demoralizing and does not work out, take it that you are practicing and preparing yourself to do the best for the next relationship. It never stops here.)
Song of encouragement.
That's about it. Kinda late now, I'm gonna hit the sack. Goodnight everyone, do make sure you stick to whatever resolutions you've set out for yourself. You can formspring me, and I wouldn't mind giving advices as to how you can achieve them.
You may think you've had it rough, and try to give it up. But when you think you're stuck, just go another way.
Don't let go of the good times, and let the bad ones know you feel fine. And wear your heart out on your sleeve, love is all you need.
